PS I am going back and forth on New Guy. Which is to say that I'd like to go back and forth on the New Guy but I don't know if it's the best thing that could happen. I think I'd like to do bad things to him with my tongue but it might ruin what friendship we have. We're scarsly friends yet, no movies, no hanging out at each other's homes, no trading of books -- these are all things that mean friendship to me. The "like" is there, but not much else. Since I don't know him well, do I want to put my tongue on him?

Yeah, I really do.

Sigh!